Starting to Date Guys

[krpp 745]

Hi guys - first of all I've been lurking here quite a long time since I've been into sagging since 18's. Back then I was actually a quite a hot sagger and was sagging quite a bit.  Nowadays not so hot generally as far as I know, but still having quite nice ass etc. as well, though not sagging too much since life in general does not allow that.
Anyway, I've been dating and living with women so far, but I think time has come to make some changes in life since I'm just not interested in that currently and I want hot guys so much. I'm not particularly young anymore - 34.

I was thinking that there must be somebody other oldie doing/having done the same. I'm having some anxiety to actually engage guys although I want it so much. How to overcome that? How to approach guys on Tinder/etc. while being used to approaching girls (e.g. the difference that 1/100 girls like you vs. 1/2 guys like you). Any tips, experiences or thoughts?

[danmart 1,024]

34 really isn't old mate. It seemed ancient to me when I was 20 but that soon changes when you realise how fast time passes. Mid thirties is a great age to be - having a bit of life experience is an attractive trait for a lot of guys. Good luck. 

[SaggerMatt 5,146]

I'm 42 and personally could see interest in dating sagging guys.  Dunno about online, though, man.  I've tried it, had some good times, but not really any success.  I'm just cool on dating overall now, man, so I guess it's just something you have to be into.  Peace, and hope that helps.

[krpp 745]

Thanks guys. Need to say that I have some bad experiences from online dating generally, but that's the only way I see I can easily start being how my life is. However, not dreaming about dating sagging guys, since pretty much nobody sags here anyways. 😃

[SaggerMatt 5,146]

Aw, man, best of luck.  I think that's all it is about, anyway.

[danmart 1,024]

It is difficult if you need to be discreet and not be too open about things.  I found it much better to meet gay men in the real world, build up a circle of friends, meet their mates and slowly create a social life. But i know gay couples in long term relationships that have met this way and others who were lucky online. The biggest problem with online is people pretending to be something they are not - in real life it is harder to lie. 

[Lee249 20,255]

Start with hello... Sagging & else can come later 😉

[wetconverse 706]

9 hours ago, Lee249 said:

Start with hello... Sagging & else can come later 😉

Yeah, but please don't start with just messaging "Hi" and nothing else

It's an start but not the best ^^

[Andrew_Smiley94 1,079]

Even though I never did online dating, but do browse around sites, even SW, as well as kik (which I don’t use anymore), etc., it’s definitely scary as a start, but then depending upon how it goes as days goes by, then you can be confident.

There was one guy on kik that almost attempted to meet up with me few years ago, which made me nervous cause of my parents… so after few days, I got caught which I guess was a good thing, cause I could be hurt, although whoever that guy was, he did post his picture from the camera which proved he is real, but in general, we don’t know who he is.

So, I’ll give my mom credit, but wished she wasn’t as nosy and taking my devices away as I wished.

So, with that in mind, yes, be careful with people online, but there can be some people that luckily enough are good to chat or hang out with… depending upon what turns you on.

[wetconverse 706]

Generally speaking, just message/DM guys you find interesting. Worst thing that can happen is that they will not reply. Just don't be shy. If an person is "fake", using common sense is enough to find it out most of the time.

I also don't think that 34 is "old". 

[Lee249 20,255]

Difficult at first... Once you communicate it becomes natural. 

[Emohotboy 963]

Yes it is so difficult as a start, for example, for me when I see a sagger on the street I just say nice sagging but every time, they just do not reply at me and pull up the pants

Also every time there is poor persons who ask me change, everytime at the bus stop, they look so ugly with a long beard 

[Lee249 20,255]

On 9/16/2022 at 7:58 PM, Emohotboy said:

Yes it is so difficult as a start, for example, for me when I see a sagger on the street I just say nice sagging but every time, they just do not reply at me and pull up the pants

Also every time there is poor persons who ask me change, everytime at the bus stop, they look so ugly with a long beard 

That's sad ☹️ I hope you gave the poor man some cents lol

Homelessness is something all too real to me as I've experienced it myself. Probably many of you too. 

Your entire world is shattered. Sleeping in doorways. People abuse you on the street. Get beaten up & spat at for the sake of it. The loneliest place anyone can be other than grief itself x 

 

[Bagga22 1,410]

On 9/6/2022 at 8:15 PM, krpp said:

Hi guys - first of all I've been lurking here quite a long time since I've been into sagging since 18's. Back then I was actually a quite a hot sagger and was sagging quite a bit.  Nowadays not so hot generally as far as I know, but still having quite nice ass etc. as well, though not sagging too much since life in general does not allow that.
Anyway, I've been dating and living with women so far, but I think time has come to make some changes in life since I'm just not interested in that currently and I want hot guys so much. I'm not particularly young anymore - 34.

I was thinking that there must be somebody other oldie doing/having done the same. I'm having some anxiety to actually engage guys although I want it so much. How to overcome that? How to approach guys on Tinder/etc. while being used to approaching girls (e.g. the difference that 1/100 girls like you vs. 1/2 guys like you). Any tips, experiences or thoughts?

I started late too and found it really difficult to start with. PM me fir a chat and I'll tell you my experiences.