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Hello guys,

i am fairly new to the forums (well posting anyway) and apologise if this is in the wrong sub-forum, or even if this type of thread is inapropriate for this forum anyway. Can i also apologise if this thread is overtly sexual.

Anyway, I am really struggling about my sexuality atm. I am attracted to guys faces physically, but when I look at their faces I really just think of their boxers/underwear. I dont think about having sex with them, and I dont want to "do anything" sexual with them. I also do not like c**k. I do have a scat fetish (sorry guys :/) so really when I think of their underwear I think of the mess they have created in their boxers. I am however attracted to their arse, but I would not want to have sex with them. I wouldnt mind kissing a man, and touching their body - but really its the boxers for me that i like. Can i clarify that I do not like girls knickers.

Lots of people do call me gay; i have a gay voice, and i am quite a gay person however I never have seen myself being with a man. Can i also add that being gay is something that has always surrounded me, from a young age i thought i was gay, but the last few years I have really agonised and worried. I think some girls are fairly attractive physically (the face really), but it seems to he a phase. I like them one day, then the next I dont really. I would like to have sex with a girl, and not with a man - but im not sure if my connection is there with a woman. But im also not sure if it is with a man. When i ****, i have to think of mens boxers to get to me to point kf ejaculating about a girl. I get hard when thinking about a girl, and having sex with a girl, but I couldnt cum because of her.

i am really embarrased by writing this post, and i am sorry if its a bit explicit but I have agonised for 3 years+ and would really like to come to a conclusion.

thanks.

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Hey, man,

I know all about what you're saying; been there, done that, kinda think I know - now - that I'm gay.  I think so.  But . . .

There were lots of dates making out with girls when I sort of soaked my briefs with precum, though never got to have sex with them.  At the time.

I had my first crush on a girl when i was 4 (wow!).  About age 10, I began looking at guys' bodies and - like you - their underwear.  A lot.  And then I was watching other parts of their bodies, torsos in particular, but it was a decade before I had more than passing thoughts of sex with a guy.

Anyway, 2 points:

      1 - Your feelings are more common than you may have thought.

      2 - If you want to chat about this, 1-on-1, PM me and we can set something up.  I don't know where you are; I'm in coastal Northern California.  But since I pretty much decide my own hours, aside from a few set appointments each week, we can chat pretty much at your convenience.

Feel welcome to hit me back if you want.

If you don't want, just be assured that you aren't weird.   Or alone.

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48 minutes ago, lo2go said:

Hey, man,

I know all about what you're saying; been there, done that, kinda think I know - now - that I'm gay.  I think so.  But . . .

There were lots of dates making out with girls when I sort of soaked my briefs with precum, though never got to have sex with them.  At the time.

I had my first crush on a girl when i was 4 (wow!).  About age 10, I began looking at guys' bodies and - like you - their underwear.  A lot.  And then I was watching other parts of their bodies, torsos in particular, but it was a decade before I had more than passing thoughts of sex with a guy.

Anyway, 2 points:

      1 - Your feelings are more common than you may have thought.

      2 - If you want to chat about this, 1-on-1, PM me and we can set something up.  I don't know where you are; I'm in coastal Northern California.  But since I pretty much decide my own hours, aside from a few set appointments each week, we can chat pretty much at your convenience.

Feel welcome to hit me back if you want.

If you don't want, just be assured that you aren't weird.   Or alone.

Thanks for your help but I live in the UK. Thank you both for your advice, its helped me a lot. 😊

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You're welcome. 

10,000KM needn't keep us from chatting; feel welcome to hit me back whenever you feel like it (PM probably the best route for now).

Best wishes as you go, man  .  .  and be confident!

 

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I say, if someone says something to you just tell them "You're not me, so why does it matter." I know that's easier said than done, but you can label yourself whatever you want. When it comes down to it, it's about what you feel emotionally more than sexually, lease that's how I see it. I know a lot of people get pissed off at saying it's more heart than genital choice but it is how it is. EX: I'm sexually into guy but emotionally into guys and girls, so when people ask me I let it be known that I'm not sexually attracted to girls although I do see the attraction, I'm mainly into guys, with girls I'm less emotionally attracted to them than I am guys. People generally get pissed at me for saying that and say i'm choosing to be with guys over girls but that's not really the case, so they ask if I've ever done anything with a female and I let it be known i have not, which mostly pisses them off more (haha). Do I plan to, honestly not at this time but if it happens one day, it happens. Overall, just need to be you and disregard labels that allow others to judge you. 

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so great to see honest and non judgemental answers.   as I tell all my younger friends.. there's no right or wrong answer.. it's not a cop out.. you must do what makes you and your partner happy.   I've finally learned..put it out there and you will find some one who will support you.   cheers my friend 

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