Dillon 568 Posted February 23 Share Posted February 23 Hi I've been gone for a minute. I'll swing by from time to time I suppose. I've developed depression. I haven't been myself lately. Take care everyone Dilly Quote Link to post Share on other sites
CJS90 1,408 Posted February 23 Share Posted February 23 1 minute ago, Dillon said: Hi I've been gone for a minute. I'll swing by from time to time I suppose. I've developed depression. I haven't been myself lately. Take care everyone Dilly sends some hope bud Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SaggerMatt 2,915 Posted February 23 Share Posted February 23 Take care, man. Nice when you do show up. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Lee249 15,223 Posted February 26 Share Posted February 26 @Dillon "aka Dilly" please seek support for your depression. I'm saddened to hear that you are going through this man. I have suffered from this too in the past, so I can relate 😢 The most important thing is staying positive. Continue social interaction (where poss) find activities/hobbies to keep your mood from spiraling. It's easy to give up... at the end of the day, it doesn't do you or your loved ones any favours mate. Please PROMISE me you will seek help or atleast advice. Take care x Lee Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Dillon 568 Posted February 27 Author Share Posted February 27 3 hours ago, Lee249 said: @Dillon "aka Dilly" please seek support for your depression. I'm saddened to hear that you are going through this man. I have suffered from this too in the past, so I can relate 😢 The most important thing is staying positive. Continue social interaction (where poss) find activities/hobbies to keep your mood from spiraling. It's easy to give up... at the end of the day, it doesn't do you or your loved ones any favours mate. Please PROMISE me you will seek help or atleast advice. Take care x Lee Naw I wont do any of that crazy **** It's just I haven't been myself lately. Like, I've been extremely quiet ... Quote Link to post Share on other sites
cargoshorts 67 Posted February 27 Share Posted February 27 3 hours ago, Dillon said: Naw I wont do any of that crazy **** It's just I haven't been myself lately. Like, I've been extremely quiet ... Im thinking it might help to find out stuff about depression or whatever is bothering u on the internet That way u dont got nobody all annoying trying to fix u. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Lee249 15,223 Posted February 27 Share Posted February 27 6 hours ago, cargoshorts said: Im thinking it might help to find out stuff about depression or whatever is bothering u on the internet That way u dont got nobody all annoying trying to fix u. I wasn't suggesting that he needed a shrink. Yes, the internet is a useful tool approach for researching stuff. Going on from personal experience, the best method was simply to confide in someone I trusted. My mood changed after that. It's different for everyone. I know for a fact that it doesn't take much to lift anyone who is either down or depressed. Ps, you don't need drugs or any other bullS*** "pick me up" to tell you that OR waste money on shrinks believe me. Take care, Lee 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SaggerMatt 2,915 Posted February 27 Share Posted February 27 9 hours ago, cargoshorts said: Im thinking it might help to find out stuff about depression or whatever is bothering u on the internet That way u dont got nobody all annoying trying to fix u. I think the internet helps a lot. I'm in a situation where I don't get out much, that's even before COVID and such, and coming to this board has always been a great relief and release to me. Peace, and love it! 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Lee249 15,223 Posted February 27 Share Posted February 27 14 minutes ago, SaggerMatt said: I think the internet helps a lot. I'm in a situation where I don't get out much, that's even before COVID and such, and coming to this board has always been a great relief and release to me. Peace, and love it! Awwws Matt. Nice to hear that this site brings you relief & happiness dude 😉 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SaggerMatt 2,915 Posted February 27 Share Posted February 27 F**** yeah! 1 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Admiralolsen 595 Posted February 27 Share Posted February 27 You have a great support group here on the site. Stay strong! 2 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Dillon 568 Posted March 5 Author Share Posted March 5 Thanks everyone. Life is weird sometimes. I will go as far as to say that I was abused when I was a kid. It was so bad that not a day goes by that I think about it and it's hard not to think about it. And then my little stint in jail where I was abused again and all chained up and put in cuffs and shackles for a really long time didn't help the cause either, although I got a lot of money for that and it helps a little bit I guess. I've gotten over that by the way. Idk, it's just I've moved on from a lot of things a lot of people and things change... Hopefully for the better. Most of me misses the old days. I realize that no one is perfect, we can all change for the better and don't dwell on the past and look back on that nonsense. The past is the past. That's what I have learned. 2 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Lee249 15,223 Posted March 5 Share Posted March 5 Did you not have a social worker or support? Reading what you went through makes my blood boil. Stuff like that can mess people up. Glad to hear that you're working your way through it mate. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Astg94 157 Posted March 5 Share Posted March 5 That’s tough life.... I’ve had felt boredom or depression when I’m home alone....usually the sites, whether it’s p*** sites, sagging sites, YouTube, etc. usually gets me less boredom or depression. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SaggerMatt 2,915 Posted March 6 Share Posted March 6 Definitely a help, I've found! 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
cargoshorts 67 Posted March 10 Share Posted March 10 On 3/4/2021 at 10:10 PM, Dillon said: Thanks everyone. Life is weird sometimes. I will go as far as to say that I was abused when I was a kid. It was so bad that not a day goes by that I think about it and it's hard not to think about it. And then my little stint in jail where I was abused again and all chained up and put in cuffs and shackles for a really long time didn't help the cause either, although I got a lot of money for that and it helps a little bit I guess. I've gotten over that by the way. Idk, it's just I've moved on from a lot of things a lot of people and things change... Hopefully for the better. Most of me misses the old days. I realize that no one is perfect, we can all change for the better and don't dwell on the past and look back on that nonsense. The past is the past. That's what I have learned. I think youve really thought about stuff and just life. hope ur smart with all the money u got Dont kill the goose that lays golden eggs Its like if u do it right maybe u dont ever got to go to work at a job unless u want to Yeah bro i think we all change. I sort of now like talking to smart people and i think ive gotten sort of more nerdier like i think its now more cool to learn how stuff is put together and works and how to build stuff and fix stuff and trashing stuff is like now no fun and just a pointless waste Quote Link to post Share on other sites
SaggerMatt 2,915 Posted March 10 Share Posted March 10 Very cool. I learn a lot as I grow older and find different interests as well that keep me going. Good advice. I was really like this in my early- to mid-20's. Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Lee249 15,223 Posted March 14 Share Posted March 14 On 3/5/2021 at 7:23 PM, Astg94 said: That’s tough life.... I’ve had felt boredom or depression when I’m home alone....usually the sites, whether it’s p*** sites, sagging sites, YouTube, etc. usually gets me less boredom or depression. Totally agree mate. I have to 'get off' to jollies somehow. Jeez... When we open up in April, there will be some blowing in the forecast too. 1 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
Astg94 157 Posted March 15 Share Posted March 15 On 3/13/2021 at 10:45 PM, Lee249 said: Totally agree mate. I have to 'get off' to jollies somehow. Jeez... When we open up in April, there will be some blowing in the forecast too. Yeah, can’t believe it’s a year already since the pandemic.... I’m getting second COVID-19 vaccine on St Patrick’s Day (March 17), then going back to work on late March early April (boo-hoo). I rather go on sites than working lol, but hey I get paid! 😜 Quote Link to post Share on other sites
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