Thank you for sharing this. That is courageous. I hope you get a lot of positive reactions |(always a gamble when posting something, for everybodyto read).

Great you looked for or found a therapist. Looking for help is the right step.

I 'm not gonna be the partner you look for, 'cause I'm too old, but I do hope you find someone and hope also your life will soon be lighter for you.

No thank you, unfortunately

I've sent it

I got the vid. What's you email adress?

send it how?

I'm very glad this topic is started by waxxfan!

I find much truth in the remarks by Jace. It's not important to label yourself. Better to accept, have fun and even be proud (?) by the unique way you handle yourself.

But... having said that, I must admit it was and is also for me a complicated issue. Sagging has always been a secretive and solo thing for me. And hard to combine with finding a (sex-)partner. I am almost 60 years old and sagging was in my life since I was 18. Reading all the replies on this topic, I realise even more that also for me, sex is only possible when combined with sagging, that is if I want to have some pleasure with it myself. I can find other (younger) guys reallly hot and attractive, but in bed it stops when there is only *******, sucking etc. involved.

I will post now some old message how sagging started with me (For who is interested

I would be glad with any responses!

I've been sagging since I was about 18, but i've always seen it as something purely for myself.

When in everyday life , like school, work etc. I never sagged. Understand that in those days sagging was not a fashion as it is today.

When someone was sagging it was "accidentally".

When i sagged, i went out alone, trying different kind of pants, sagging lower and lower while walking and when someone saw me, it gave me a feeling of excitement, but also of being "caught".

So... this mix of having something exclusively for myself with this rush of excitement (and afterwards also shame) I kept all my life.  But nowadays I  don't go out like that anymore, but stay inside., so there is no real shame anymore.

The best!

Sure

Love thos one!

Hot

Hi there,

I've been sagging since I was about 18, but i've always seen it as something purely for myself.

When in everyday life , like school, work etc. I never sagged. Understand that in those days sagging was not a fashion as it is today.

When someone was sagging it was "accidentally".

When i sagged, i went out alone, trying different kind of pants, sagging lower and lower while walking and when someone say me, it gave me a feeling of excitement, but also of being "caught".

So... this mix of having something exclusively for myself with this rush of excitement (and afterwards also shame) I kept all my life.

By now (I'm 53) the sagging is still a lot on my mind, I sag for myself (love a low crotch as my pics show) and every now and then I go out and sag.  For instance after stressy work, or when I'm feeling frustrated or smt. 

Sagging drop-crotch pants!

But very hot at the same time!

What a wonderful, well written, well analysed story!!

yes it is too extreme to wear outside I think. Bought it on ebay from an Australian guy. It's a Levi's.