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Thanks guys for your responses. I was on the bus and there was a guy sagging real low. We got off at the same stop, I followed him, he was checking himself in his reflection in shop windows and adjusting his sag. Pulling his jeans up a little, then pulling them down a little. Then pulling the back of his jacket down to cover his boxers (but failing!) it was quite erotic for me!

Anyway I plucked up the courage and walked past him and said "Nice sag!". I avoided eye contact and walked down the next street as I didn't know how he would react. Haha , I don't think there was anything for me to be concerned about as the look on his face was either a look of shock or he was just left speechless!

If you were sagging and a gay man complimented you on your sag, how would you react?

Quick question:

If you were sagging in the street minding your own business and a passer by takes you by suprise and said something like "nice sag" before walking off, how would you react?

oo err.... :s

usually ppl here dont show that much anyway, i think this kind of sagging is hawt as well

That's true mate. If your gonna sag then at least show some boxers, even a bit!

Yeah yeah! Good idea! Plus it's quite sexy when a sagger is in a position where his jacket is going to lift up and you hope its gonna lift just enough for a peak! Almost like being teased!

Don't you think it's a pity this time of year, so many cute saggers but because it's so cold they wear jackets and hide their sags :0( such a waste..

takes a bit of time, listen to their voice. sounds cliche but if you listen closely there may be a bit of campness {sic} in their voice. but you can get that in straight boys also.

look at their body language, maybe if they like you they will look into your eyes when talking.

listen to the conversation, will they avoid talking about girls? this could be an indication that they have no intrest in girls.

perhaps if you don't want to give away that you are gay maybe touch his arm or back during a conversation in a friendly way and see what his response is.

either way the best way is to hold a conversation, without it being blatently obvious it's not so easy to tell just by looking at some one.

cycling for the tight arses and snooker in pubs for the chance to see some sagging ;0)

Just to clear this up a bit as there is some mis-informed information.

The term 'pedophile' as listed on Wikipedia:

The term pedophilia (or paedophilia) has a range of definitions as found in psychiatry, psychology, law enforcement, and the vernacular. As a medical diagnosis, it is defined as a psychological disorder in which an adult experiences a sexual preference for prepubescent children.[1][2][3] According to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM), pedophilia is specified as a form of paraphilia in which a person either has acted on intense sexual urges towards children, or experiences recurrent sexual urges towards and fantasies about children that cause distress or interpersonal difficulty.[4] The disorder is common among people who commit child sexual abuse;[5][6][7] however, some offenders do not meet the clinical diagnosis standards for pedophilia.[8] In strictly behavioral contexts, the word "pedophilia" has been used to refer to child sexual abuse itself, also called "pedophilic behavior".

That is talking about sex with kids & not old with young

praps we can put this under 'polls'! Put me down for a "yes" :0)

i agree in a way with jace. i mean if the younger boy is keen on the older man then thats the choice of that young guy. I too, for some reason, have had sex with much younger guys, and they came on to me! Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying I'm irresistable to young guys, but if they like me enough to come on to me then that's how it is. I personally don't see anything wrong with big age gaps, it's old men persistantly hassling young guys without their consent that's the issue.