SportyKinkster

Datings sites and apps across the board are bad these days unless you're really good looking or hot (but even then it hard in different ways) Straight people seem to have an easier time but it's still even hard for them. Throw in a sagging fetish, needing mutual attraction and all kinds of other kinks and fetishes and the dating pool shrinks drastically for gay and bi guys to the point where it seems there's only a handful of compatible guys even in large cities like London, NYC, etc... "Seems" being the key word though  I relate to this and also struggle with standards for gay kinkster vs more vanilla guys. Recon and Fetlife used to be decent but seem to be not as active since 2020. 

But all that said, giving up will ensure you will be forever alone. I found my first boyfriend when I wasn't really looking and had moved to NYC making friends. We met through a mutual friend I made a few months after arriving, started hanging out together and the rest was history. I look at Jace's pics and other kinksters who found their boyfriend for inspiration when I think of throwing in the towel. Your guy(s) is out there looking for you. Sometimes they're in another country as I found once. You have to cast a wide net as possible. Meet them halfway in real life. Start meeting people and if there are gay clubs, meetups or orgs in your area go to them. Work on building up your confidence, social skills, suspending your expectations of immediately finding a boyfriend (this gives off desperation which attracts the wrong kind of guys) etc... It's difficult but not impossible. Even though it's weird to compare dating is like job hunting. You have to keep trying and adjust your approach when needed. Or not since sometimes rejection isn't about you. All in all just put yourself out there and you'll eventually find them. Currently single again and still searching so take this with a grain of salt but I hope that helps somewhat.

Have a bit of a crush on them. Discovered them from their cover of Effiel 65's 90's hit "Blue." Leondre goes shirtless in the session halfway through for some reason, maybe it was hot in there...? Not complainng 😍

Didn't know they were also YouTubers but makes sense. Maybe they have an OnlyFans too? I'd like to think they're a couple but that's wishful thinking. Would let these two do everything to me - oh man...

Yep, bball shorts are so hot and are great for sagging IMO. Shame a lot of manufactures don't make the the shiny dazzle shorts anymore though.  New "dri-fit" fabric is replacing them 😐

Oh man- where do I even start?... Have many fetishes and consider myself to be fairly kinky:

Sports gear, bball shorts, silk boxers, bondage (massively into getting tied up), too many other types of gear to list here, roleplaying, facesitting, tickling, getting edged and milked.

Interesting topic. I've mostly dated guys around my age but as someone who looks younger than my age I also attract college aged guys too which is interesting

I'm 33 yet am fairly slim and am told I look around 5-10 years younger (someone at a bar last year thought I was 19 or 20- I laughed and thought they were joking but I'm not complaining....Good gene's I guess) this is something I've had experience with a few times now. After I turned 30 I became more self conscious about coming off as an old creep to "younger" guys when I see hot college aged guys (18-24) and give a quick look. Having been on the receiving end of leering older guys who were double or triple my age and feeling uncomfortable like I was being eye fucked I'm mindful about not becoming one of "those guys". Thankfully for whatever reason, most likely due to looking younger, younger guys come on to me. I usually don't make the first move anyway out of shyness.

When I was 24 an 18 year old asked me out and dated me for a few months, I was somewhat surprised about how forward and confident he was when he asked me out. I remember thinking "aren't you a bit too young for me...?" He paid for the first date too to "prove he wasn't seeking a sugar daddy". A few college age guys hooked up with me in the past few years; they either initiated the first message on dating apps or came up to me at bars/ sports leagues I was a member of.

Two years ago a 19 year old messaged me and was a fwb (submissive bottom here). I remember once after hooking up he admitted to me when he was 17 he wanted to F**** his friend's hot dad which I was a bit shocked to hear; good thing he didn't since that's illegal..... depending on the murky age of consent laws. I remember admitting to him after that I was starting to feel self conscious about my age to which he replied "if you're over 18 age and attractive it's just a number." 

I realized he's right, if you're legally an adult and you're both attracted to each other go for it.

I'm not writing these personal antidotes to brag but am giving some perspective on the other side of the coin about younger guys pursuing me- that's something I wasn't prepared for but am pleasantly surprised about. Better to be grateful instead of wringing my hands worrying about being too old or coming off as a creeper. Those kind of insecurities can eat away at relationships anyway.

A guy from another sagging site had sex with me while sagging and with his clothes on. Gear stays on in the bedroom in my book.

Hope this isn't too x-rated to share on the forums but we did a bit of robbery roleplay. Tied me up with duct tape, pulled my underwear down to my ankles and then sucked and fucked me with his gear and shoes still on. All he had to do was just had to pull his basketball shorts down a little when he flipped me over but it was soo incredibly hot!

Even pretended to steal my laptop and TV and leave me struggling in the tape for a good 15 mins or so but he actually went out to get some beer for us haha 

On 2/5/2019 at 11:12 AM, Jacklinl said:

i actually tried that getting a wedgie while being tied up makes me hard and horny

Nice! Yeah, bondage wedgies are fun and play into submissive side. They do make a good combo  

Oh yeah! Toned/ muscular butts and bubble butts make are just hot even though I'm mostly a submissive bottom but.... well let's just say they get my wheels turning without getting too x-rated or kinky.

A guy with bball or mesh shorts on and a hot butt or a guy who does squats is a head turner IMO

As a bit of a kinkster I like them; makes good foreplay and good for roleplay also. Even more fun to get wedgied when tied up  

This is a great idea, can't wait to see the exchange when it's done.

I've been wondering how guys do this as well.... they tuck it in? I always thought it was special tight form fitting underwear or something.  Though it looks hot to be honest.

Sexy underwear, sportswear, bball shorts and all kinds of bondage

Nice video! Always good to see kinky saggers having fun Would like to see more sagger bondage roleplay videos

Shiny mesh shorts, B ball shorts, silky shorts are my Kryptonite. Don't know what it is about them but find them super hot, play basketball and soccer in HS so that could have something to do with it.