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  1. On 6/20/2017 at 7:51 AM, wetwetwetnl said:

    I totally disagree!!! Being gay IS NOT A CHOICE.

    I am very happily gay but i didnt choose for it. I AM.

    You can choose your sexual activity but you can't choose your sexuality! If you prefer boys, girls or both thats how you are born (or developed in your early childhood but you have no influene on it) and indeed it's your choise to bring your preference in practice ;)

    Gay, straight, bi, you are born with it. It is that at some age you get noticed of it and then you think: omg i become gay, but that is incorrect. You are gay but you become aware of it.

     

    And not everybody is bi in a 50/50 way, haha. There is a whole scale of 100 steps between 100%gay and 100%straight. To simplify it here is a 6-steps scale (or actually 7):

    Maybe we intend to say the same Saggcr6. It's a choice to fullfil your own preferences but the preferences you cant choose.

    I think the confusion here is the use of the term "gay" when what you mostly mean is "homosexual". They aren't the same thing.

    People are born with varying degrees of homosexual tendencies. That's what the Kinsey scale measures. The study also found that most people aren't at one end or the other (i.e. no homosexual tendencies or only homosexual tendencies). They're somewhere in the middle. This is no different to finding you're attracted to people because of other attributes like a certain hair colour or physique. It's there, but you don't really know where it comes from, and it can change slightly over time.

    Acting on attraction and identifying a certain way are separate things. Ancient Greeks had homosexual sex, but they didn't identify as "gay". That's a 20th century invention which is more of a branding exercise than anything else, tied in with the push for civil rights, which in turn was a reaction to those rights becoming more formally restricted in the 19th and early 20th century.  We all know you can have sex without attraction. Prostitution is the oldest trade in the world. There are plenty of examples of male bonding which could be interpreted as homosexual sex in other contexts.

    I think the key thing is not to stigmatise people for their sexual behaviour (within reason). That isn't really helped by the defeatist argument of "I was born like this. I can't help it.", because, just as some would like to "cure" people of a learned behaviour psychologically, they'd also want to "cure" them in a biological way if that was a determined cause. The real fight is against conservative people forcing everyone to conform to what they believe someone's sex life should be like, and that's as true of queers who slut shame people as it is of straight people who are openly homophobic.

  2. 1 hour ago, Krister said:

    Not there, but actually its kind of fun to go about all muddy or wet: people usually dont say anything, some may ask 'what happend' and you say what you like.

     

    Yeah, I saw the yoghurt one after this, and the most exciting part of that was the idea that people were watching you do it and then you walked home like that afterwards.

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  3. I wear speedos, but then I swim lengths and baggy shorts just cause unnecessary drag. I can't even imagine the additional weight of having underwear on in there too, plus doesn't that also create unnecessary washing? I'm in the pool 90% of the time so what it looks like doesn't matter that much, and if someone really wants to oggle or get offended, that's their problem. I do agree it can make things quite restrictive down there... However, that's a benefit when you're swimming as it keeps everything in place, and I just get them off as quickly as possible when I'm done :)

    For more laid-back swimming, I'd prefer skinny dipping... ;) but opportunities for that are limited. I'm not a sun-chaser - I burn too easily - so hanging around at the pool side isn't really something I do.

    On the hygiene front, what bothers me more than what people wear in the pool is the fact that often don't seem to shower afterwards... and I don't count showering with all your swimming stuff still on. That defeats the point. Guys, wash your junk. It's not gonna kill you if some other guy sees it.

    @wetwetwetnl, as if your calendar pictures this month weren't enough of a distraction, now I have images in my head of you under a waterfall in just boxer briefs... thanks... ;)

  4. On 20/09/2016 at 1:50 AM, Lee249 said:

    I also posted some of her funny scenes in the thread beforehand :) SATC ended at the same time as Friends (same year) and i can remember watching it's final season when Carrie went to Paris. 

    I never forget watching episodes late at night once a week on channel 4 when they commissioned repeats. It was like 10pm and i was real young at the time. 

    I shall have to fish out more epic Samantha moments :P 

    Oh, I'll have to look further back. I only just found this thread.

    I remember watching that final season too. I started mid-way through season 4, I think, then watched the first seasons from the repeats. I have memories of watching it first thing in the morning, so must have recorded them as I doubt that's when they were broadcast! ;)

  5. Samantha was always my favourite. I got most of my sex ed. from that show rather than school!

    I'd forgotten the train episode. Having taken the train from New York to Chicago last year, I can now say that's pretty much exactly what it's like (though I was lucky enough to meet some friendlier passengers than they did). It's like going in a time machine back a few decades.

    Thanks for posting :-D

     

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  6. Age: 33
    Gay Straight or Bi: Into guys, usually.
    Race: Caucasian
    Hometown: Sheffield
    Grade: A* with cherries on top

    Clothing
    What kind of underwear do you wear: Boxer briefs & hipsters
    What brand do you wear: Whatever I think looks hot; Calvin Klein, Lick & Diesel are the main ones.
    Do you wear a jockstrap for anything: I've tried it once, but didn't suit me, so I gave it to my boyfriend at the time. I got more out of it that way ;)
    What do you wear to swim: Speedos (less drag)
    Do you ever freeball? Not really, too much risk of getting something important caught in the zipper of my jeans...
    What kind of socks to you wear (above or below the ankle): Above, usually. It's cold here.

    Body
    Are you slim, average, or "bigger": Slim
    Do you have any body hair: Pubes & leg hair. I get rid of the little chest hair that appears because it just looks a mess.
    Do you have any facial hair: No, shave regularly.
    Do you have any of your body or facial hair:  ??? See above.
    Do you trim or shave your pubes: Trim. Gotta keep my D accessible ;)

    Below the Belt
    When was the last time you had a boner: Earlier this evening
    Do you have one now: Comes and goes... 
    Do you masturbate: Yeah ,who doesn't?

    When: Pretty much every day, though try to hold off if I know I'm likely to have sex soon.
    Where: Everywhere I can get away with it.
    How: Involves at least one hand. Really should be taught in sex ed.
    What is you favorite way to jerk off: To hot porn / sex stories. *cough* this site helps a lot *cough*
    What do you wear to jerk off: Everything from just popping my D out when fully dressed to completely naked. Preferably I keep underwear on as it's a turn-on.
    How do you clean up: Wash up.
    Have you every masterbated anally: Yes, with occasional help too...

    Fun with Boys or Girls
    Have you ever jerked in front of another boy: Many times. Usually leads on to something more.
    If not would you: N/A
    Have you ever jerked in front of a girl: No
    If not would you: If she wanted me to, sure, why not?
    Have you ever masturbated another boy: Yes, see answer to first question in this section.
    If not would you: N/A
    Have you ever fingered a girl: No
    If not would you: If she wanted me to.
    Have you ever had oral sex with a boy: Many times
    Did you give or receive: Both, sometimes at the same time.
    If not would you: N/A
    Have you ever had oral sex with a girl: No
    Did you give or recieve: N/A
    (If you answer yes to any of these next questions go on to the next part)
    Have you ever had sex with another boy: Many times.
    Were you top or bottom: Both, sometimes at the same time (though that needs multiple boys...)
    Did you enjoy it: Yes, you should try it some time.
    If not would you: N/A
    Have you ever had sex with a girl: no
    Did you enjoy it: N/A
    If not would you: If she wanted to and I was actually capable... not sure I'd be into it enough.

    Sex, Sex, and more Sex
    What is your favourite position: Depends on what I'm doing. If I'm taking D, I like to ride it so I stay in control.
    Do you use protection:  Always.
    What kind: Condoms
    What is you favorite kind or condom: Never really thought about it, it's rare I've even had to buy them.
    Have you ever had anal with a girl: No
    If no would you: If she wanted to.
     

    Where have you had sex (mark with an x)
    Your bed: [X]
    Your parents bed: [X]
    Your lovers bed: [X]
    The bath: [X]
    The Shower: [X]
    The floor: [x]
    The Couch: [X]
    Outside: [x]
    In a hot tub or pool: [X]
     

    Where did you lose you virginity: Which virginity? Probably at my parents' house.
    Have you ever had sex in public: Yeah... love it.

    Would you: N/A
    When was the last time you had sex: Last weekend
    Did you cum: Later on
    Did they cum: Don't know

    And last but not least...

    Did this Survey make you horny: A little, other people's answers did more ;)

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  7. 2 hours ago, flameboard said:

    Haha to me it seems like they are scared it's going to disappear and have to keep hold of it to know it's around lol.

    Yeah haha... plus it's cold up north, keeping their hands on their genitals in the winter time seems to serve the same job as wearing gloves! ;)

  8. Uncut (as are most Brits)

    33

    First masturbated at about 14... and for most of the weekend I discovered it ;)

    Not sure what **** is, but I can guess... No-one springs to mind, but there are a few times I wish I'd made a move and didn't.

    Underwear & public exhibitionism/embarrassment... so this site is perfect! The stories and videos have already provided quite a bit of wanking material... 

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