jasper

Currently studying for a masters of international law... already graduated from law school (bachelors)... hope to become a international lawyer! then I can sag in court

An interesting extract, admittedly from Wikipedia:

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Dr. Alfred Kinsey's 1948 work Sexual Behavior in the Human Male found that "46% of the male population had engaged in both heterosexual and homosexual activities, or 'reacted to' persons of both sexes, in the course of their adult lives".^[28] Kinsey himself disliked the use of the term bisexual to describe individuals who engage in sexual activity with both males and females, preferring to use "bisexual" in its original, biological sense as hermaphroditic: "Until it is demonstrated [that] taste in a sexual relation is dependent upon the individual containing within his anatomy both male and female structures, or male and female physiological capacities, it is unfortunate to call such individuals bisexual" (Kinsey et al., 1948, p. 657).^[29] Dr. Fritz Klein believed that social and emotional attraction are very important elements in bisexual attraction. One third of the men in each group showed no significant arousal. The study did not claim them to be asexual, and Rieger stated that their lack of response did not change the overall findings.

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In other words, bisexuality is perhaps far more common than we suppose, which would be unsurprising given the complexity of the brain. Bisexuality seems complex enough to be that common in the human brain given the human brain's level of complexity.

It is also interesting because it argues that sexual expression is far more than simply a defined sexuality... that it can be seen as a continuance of the act of bonding between individuals. In which case bisexuality would be far more naturally common than we think, were it not discouraged by the heterosexual bias in society.

I wouldn't worry that you fancy both genders, I potentially believe that at least some degree of sexual attraction towards both genders is more common than being either exclusive homo- or hetero- sexuality. I for example, would classify myself as gay as I have only ever done sexual acts with other guys and I am very strongly attracted to them, but even I would admit that occasionally I feel slightly aroused by certain females (although interestingly, they tend to be the more androgynous looking).

So basically, don't worry, because we are infinitely more complex than human society currently gives us credit for!!

At uni, I used to live with this guy I thought was hot, but he was straight. Worst of all he always sagged, which made it even harder to live with him. he wore nice fitting jeans, colourful boxer briefs, usually a white belt fastening his jeans half way down his ass below nice tight-fitting t-shirts. One night i was in the house on my own, and i was really horny as I had been sagging all day so I went to his room and put on his boxer briefs, jeans with the white belt sagging under a green tightly fitting t-shirt of his. It felt so hot to sag in his clothes, so I jerked off in them. Then I went downstairs, watched some TV, then felt horny again in his clothes, so jerked off again. I later returned his clothes as I found them. What made it amazing is that the next morning when I saw him, he was sagging in exactly the same clothes I had put on the night before!

I haven't... I won't lol. Sagging is the only reason I like guys so yeah.. no one needs to know lol, and hell by the time I'm like 30 or whatever people will stop sagging around me and I'll forget about it lol.

I'm sorry but I think that sounds like wishful thinking to me... If you "like guys" at all, then it's probably not limited to sagging, you might just think it is. I used to tell myself that at school, but it wasn't true in the end. I just don't think you should hide it forever, it may come to haunt you.

Again sorry, I hope you don't take this the wrong way... just giving advice.

At university, there are a lot of saggers. In the library, they are especially noticeable. There was often a guy around with spiky black hair, who wore cool t-shirts and always wore jeans with a thick white belt which sagged all the way around. When he sat down, his belt was vertical, and his t-shirt still ended horizontally, so his boxers were fully on show.

There was another guy who sagged with a really loose belt, and his jeans always slipped massively when he sat down, completely showing his boxers. He always had to pull them up whenever he stood up again. I also saw him cycling in one day, and his boxers were the only things touching his seat.

Then there was this particularly hot guy, with built biceps and abs and short blond hair who wore tight t-shirts and sagged low so you could see his boxers the whole way round, but more at the back, where his boxers were pulled up so they stuck out. He kept going past, and everytime it was a massive turn on. Luckily, he came back everyday that I was there. He'd wear different t-shirts, jeans, belts and boxers, but always in the same style. I didn't know him, but I'd go and sit near him where I could get a good view. One day he wore tracksuit bottoms and sagged in those instead. I made sure that I sagged a lot round him as well.

Orange t-shirt, black jeans with a white belt, showing mexx underpants with a floral design. You can see them from behind when my jeans slip down as I walk.