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I love them and don't have enough of them. 

I loved the first series. I haven't got to the second one yet but I'm looking forward to it.

I have always kept quiet about any crushes I might have in the workplace and, thankfully, I have had very few. But when I left one job some years ago a guy who I did find attractive, but who had a girlfriend, intimated that he knew and quite liked it. It was a nice goodbye.

4 hours ago, Admiralolsen said:

Love the advice guys.  To add more of this issue, I could use some more advice.  I have began to admit to not being interested in any form of penetration sex.  I have watched, as we all probably have, po*n and I find straight and gay sexual penetration a major turn off.  I am totally open to other forms of intimacy (blowjobs, handjobs,etc.) Am I weird because I don’t like penetration sex?  I know that that can be a major problem for a relationship but I don’t really want to lower my standards. 

Maybe what you're really thinking is that you don't want to be that intimate with someone you've only just met. You want time to get to know someone - then maybe you might be able to let go more. It sounds to me that you are looking in the wrong places - apps that are designed to encourage hook ups which in turn encourages guys to advertise themselves in a certain way. There are actually loads of people around you who won't have had sex for some time or will have only had some form of limited intimacy - even those in couples. But no one ever likes to admit it. 

Red

Mmm depends how hot or how cold. But easier to warm up than cool down - so cold. 

Soup or sandwich?

It has not stopped peeing down for weeks in south west England.  The local river looks ready to burst. I really want some sun now. 

Beards are hot if they aren't too bushy. I'm not so keen on the solitary moustache. I think that fashion should stay parked in the 1970s. 

Not

Santa or Rudolph?

Eclairs. 

Starters or puddings?

Neck chain. 

Neck or lips?

Yep. I like wearing lycra too - for cycling, running and the gym though I've got out of the habit recently. Skinny jeans over a great looking ass are also as good as a sag. 

It is difficult if you need to be discreet and not be too open about things.  I found it much better to meet gay men in the real world, build up a circle of friends, meet their mates and slowly create a social life. But i know gay couples in long term relationships that have met this way and others who were lucky online. The biggest problem with online is people pretending to be something they are not - in real life it is harder to lie. 

34 really isn't old mate. It seemed ancient to me when I was 20 but that soon changes when you realise how fast time passes. Mid thirties is a great age to be - having a bit of life experience is an attractive trait for a lot of guys. Good luck. 

Ha! I didn't see it before but my answer would be I love looking at a muscly guy in tight clothes. Its not what i would look for in a man but perfect as a brief bit of visual entertainment to brighten my day. 

14 hours ago, Lee249 said:

Is it ever too late to have them pierced?

I think it depends on your circumstances rather than age. I always wanted to do it, ever since I was 17, but never did and for me i think I've left it too late now.  But that's more to do with my job and my life rather than my age. I'd say go and do it for anyone who wants to and can. 

I still prefer boxer briefs but i talk to a lot of guys on Saggerworld who seem to like briefs. That wasn't the case even 5 years ago. But i think it can also depend on where you live. Baggy boxers are more popular in some countries than others.  

That's great. Congratulations. 

As a rule I think it is best not to rush, or feel pressured, into these things. But I get that people have natural urges and curiosity. There are probably loads of teenagers having sex with each other where one might be just above and the other just below the age of consent. Unless something bad happened there is likely to be no public interest in enforcing the law. Big age gaps between consenting adults often raises eyebrows here in the UK as it is less common - but a 30 year old and a 50 year old does not make me feel as uncomfortable as a 16 year old and a 36 year old. I've always felt it is best to let very young adults experiment with each other and let them work out over time what they really want from life. There are always one off exceptions but these matters are really about law and morality. 

I don't but some people will. I've never done it but if I did I'd go for black.  

The best experiences I have on this site are with people who just want to keep it light, exchange messages, maybe a few sagging pics and who never even ask to see my face. I tend to back away from the more pushy guys. I've never met anyone on here and I might never do so given the distances involved. I'd rather just enjoy a shared interest. I've never chosen my friends by how attractive they are. My advice would be not to be pressured into anything too quickly. 

Here in the south west of England, we have been through the toilet roll and soap crisis but hand sanitiser and paracetamol seem scarce right now. I've heard stories of people queuing up at chemists early in the morning to grab everything. Supermarket staff say people are shouting at them for not having certain items. There have been fights by all accounts. I get that survival is a natural human instinct and that people can die from this. But people around me seem to be making themselves more ill with anxiety than the actual virus itself. 

I know lots of monogamous couples - and a few that aren't. It's possible to find one. It's just if you are looking for the fantasies you describe as well, then you might narrow the field too much. It's normal for people to be a mix of contradictions. But you are young and should probably be trying to find your real self right now. You can want certain things too much and miss out on some brilliant experiences as a result. 

I tried to get one and hot close a few times. It was visible but not obvious. But each time i lost momentum and it went. I'm doing badly right now!

I love wearing tights and often do so for running, especially in winter. I never wear shorts over them as I find it's easier to move freely without. But I might do it occasionally if I go to the gym. If you wear black, which most men do, your bulge doesn't really show all that much and so I don't worry about that. One of my workmates once told me there was no point in me being gay if I didn't wear lycra so I decided to go for it. I'm a keen cyclist too.