SBJB

3 minutes ago, Admiralolsen said:

Agreed.  Quite making excuses @SBJB and answer the question directly.  And if you are afraid to answer the question, then don't make up weird questions that cause us to do this. 

It was a personal insult masked as a question, therefor no response required. I'm happy to take any insults via PM, but insulting members in threads just derails them. If you think the question was weird, then that says something about how it makes you feel. Weird is how something makes you feel, not what it is.

The thread is about hair and Krister has stated that he likes beards on men that are attractive, but not sexually attractive. I'm merely asking what kind of men that would be and how it makes him feel. He doesn't have to answer if it is uncomfortable for him.

4 minutes ago, SaggerMatt said:

I guess since you're asking, I don't think anybody actually finds materialism attractive nor appealing.  I can at least agree with Arthiel on that.  It's a kind of putrid, convoluted association with the notion of people's things--actually sinful.

I think you undermined yourself with the sinful part at the end. 

What are we talking about here; whether or not people who have a high desire for materialistic things are more or less attractive because of that desire. Or people looking better or the same in expensive material things?

For the former I would say it's inherent for people to be this way, to some extent. As for why most people dislike others being materialistic, isn't that just jealousy? 

Are the holes in the crotch area?

4 minutes ago, Dillon said:

You said that he is insecure. Lol

Well that's only the same as it would have been if I'd said he was displeased with my response. 

4 minutes ago, tomass said:

Hahahahaha omg really??? You dont think you are defensive??? Smh, you really are dumb as F****!

Why don't you drop me a pm instead bro? 

2 minutes ago, tomass said:

Why dont you answer his question? We would all love to know your answer to his question.

It was rhetorical.

I'd prefer not to discuss myself or anyone else in terms of their interaction with the site, it's counterproductive. A bit like an actor looking at the camera.

11 minutes ago, tomass said:

Then why are you so denfensive with everyone in these forums?

Do you have any examples of me being defensive? I don't think I have been. 

9 minutes ago, tomass said:

If your not racist then why bring up the racist point to begin with? Explain further. You may not be racist but you are annoying asf!

Indeed a good point. I was reluctant to post it for that reason. But I didn't want anyone looking for an easy diversion to what I was really saying. Which sadly has now just happened. 

8 hours ago, Krister said:

Don't you ever get tired of pseudo-freudian babling?

If you feel the need to ignore the question and make a personal attack on me. 

I'd love to hear the answer, if you are comfortable to do so.

21 minutes ago, Dillon said:

Yeah but how do you supposedly know this about him if ya never met him tho?

I haven't said anything about him? 🤔 

5 hours ago, Arthiel said:

I didn't look at the date at all. I just saw these 2 kids passing by and I was like "oh God..." xD  
Maybe that's a good suggestion  Always look at the dates before judging  Maybe they're actual saggers nowadays? Or maybe not  Who knows and  who cares  

I'm not sure if I've made myself clear. You were suggesting it was 'played' as if that was unusual. I was trying to point out to those that may not have used youtube back then, that this is a genre of video that once existed on YouTube. Knowing this would help you understand that what is going on was quite normal at the time. The only bit they meant to be significant was the actual sagging.🙂

5 hours ago, Arthiel said:

This isn't a celebrity right? And I'm not finding people hot on the type of clothes they wear to be honest. I'm a kind of person that looks more to the attitude. Even a person with the least amount of money, can be the most attractive one. 
I'm not the sort that cares a lot about the materialistic. Ok, agreed. You need to have some stuff in your life but you need to decide yourself what you want more. 

But most people do find materialist things appealing on those they desire and themselves. Why do you suppose that is?

8 hours ago, soakedsagger said:

What difference does it make? You don't need to know what my family and friends are like or whether or not I self-identify as intelligent to know that I like intelligence in potential partners. If I had a reasonable explanation for why I like what I like, I'd have answers for a lot more than just my preferences.

Don't be so defensive. If you don't want to share something then don't share it.

Don't be afraid to find out something about yourself that may help you understand you better. These are your insecurities, not mine. 

Why have they given him a black muffler when his skin is lighter than it is darker?

I don't know, is it?

I can't put my finger on it.

Something doesn't add up boss?

Hmmmm

5 minutes ago, SaggerTwinkLover said:

Sorry what?

The whole point of attraction is to be attracted to someone that isn't you. I wouldn't date me, let alone give myself a second look.

And as for the picture I provided, would you rather I posted a man in Hanbok instead?

I fail to see your point...

I don't think the whole point of attraction is to be attracted to someone who isn't you. Why do you put yourself down?

I'm not attacking the picture you provided. May I ask your ethnicity, where in the world do you live?

I've met white people before who claim to have primary attractions for Asians or black people.

[Note to all: I'm not racist. Not that I've said anything to make you think that anyway, other than your minds seeing red. If you think it's racist, read it again. If you don't think it's racist, have a cookie.]

20 hours ago, SaggerTwinkLover said:

So I'm sitting here taking part in one of my frequent KPop binges on YouTube, fangirling over some of the spicy kimchi I'm looking at and it got me thinking about what you guys look for visually in someone, whether it be a guy or a girl.

Taking sagging or a particular style of clothes out of the equation, what grabs your attention? Is there a particular ethnic group that does it for you? A hair colour? An eye colour? How (s)he smiles?

Tell me what gets you all hot and bothered?

I personally find many different ethnic groups to be absolutely striking in their visual appearance. Whether it be a beautiful black woman, a fit looking Arab or this... Oh good God definitely this! 

And yet you've posted one of the most westernised-looking Asians you possibly could have found. Why buy store brand when the better one is the same price? Explain.

It would be more point-full if everyone answered with additional background info. eg If you like blonde hair; do you have it yourself, are there any blondes where you live or none? eg. If you like intelligence, are you intelligent yourself, are your family/friends intelligent?

How does underwear get holes in it, much less after just 6 months?

On 19/01/2018 at 9:11 PM, Krister said:

I find men with beard, moustache, etc. can look quite handsome, but not sexy, if you get the difference. Kissing and everything else would be somehow messy or shaggy, and not messy in a way I might like, with a chap with a lot of facial hair.

Interesting. Do you feel safe when you see father with a beard?

On 20/01/2018 at 1:31 PM, sg96 said:

IIRC the authors have since admitted they took the photos off dating sites, which kind of screws with the validity of the data set.

Phew, nothing to worry about then?

On 22/01/2018 at 12:56 PM, Arthiel said:

I don't know what to think of this .. Ok, it's considered sagging but for one reason or another it seems too "played" in my opinion. 
When I'm walking around in public, rocking my sag, I don't even come close of walking like that. 

It looks to me they just wanted to do some movie and considered this as a kind of prank. 

Correct me if I'm wrong though. I'm not the almighty know-it-all  
Cheers! 

YouTube was full of these 'some movie' style 'Vine' type videos when it first came out. I might have expected to see an upload date of 2006-2009 though.

On 22/01/2018 at 12:57 PM, Arthiel said:

This is not appealing at all, in my opinion. 
I don't like his style of clothes. It's like showing off with the amount of money that one has. 

As said, this is my opinion. Don't mean to start a verbal riot here  x 

Well that's unusual. Most people find celebrities hot, partly because they are wearing clothes that they themselves can not afford. So I'm guessing you also find celebrities in expensive clothing hot, but not none-celebrities/peers in expensive clothing hot?