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    younger with older

    in Gay/Bi/Lesbian

    Posted

    do you think that it is a good thing that there are a lot of younger guys who would prefer to be with older men..

    and do you think that older men would prefer younger to keep their youth.. or ???

    would love to hear a few opinions...

    OMG how many times i see this question. AGE IS NOTHING but a number, if we go on telling ourselves we are a certain age, we start acting like it being miserable, moany ect. I am 41 but certainly do not feel or act it, I have not a single grey hair because I am generally a happy free spirtited guy who copes with stress incredibly well and who keeps in trim with regualr swims and daily long walks. But going back to the question I believe an age gap is only good up to a certain point, then it just becomes unexceptable and the older guy should show a little more reserve and control. No one can help who they like its nature. I have had many young guys advancing me (and i don't just mean on here in the chat rooms) and i find it all a huge compliment but thats where it stops...An acceptable age for me is 21 upwards an age that i feel comofrtable in myself with. There is truth though that some of the young ones think a 30 year old is passed it, Yet i know many 30 years olds that a far fitter and active than most youngsters of today. True saying Youth is wasted on the young... lol well I have said my peice

    What do you wear to swim and why?

    in Gay/Bi/Lesbian

    Posted

    if you wear a bathing suit, boardshorts, swimming trunks, swimming shorts WHATEVER YOU CALL THEM AS SUCH.... if they have the brief liner the mesh brief liner.. do you still wear some underwear? i imagine shorts like that would not be comfortable with boxer briefs... i can see if you have shorts that have NO l liner then underwear might be fun.. plus wet undies are always kinda hot :tongue_smilie:... but with the liner i usually just wear the shorts and thats it :)

    i cut the mesh liner out of my speedo shorts so can wear stuff underneath :drool:

    MUSIC

    in Off Topic Discussions

    Posted

    Yeah! Basically, I just listen to heart fm - they play them all still :wink:

    Yeah they do I know, i have heart on during the week at certain times, I have bbc radio 2 on sundays for ep on sunday and paul o grady lol

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    MUSIC

    in Off Topic Discussions

    Posted

    *Kool & The Gang mate! (I had to point that out, was annoying me haha) - Some brilliant artists there. I like the dance floor artists you like aswell, add on Todd Terry, R Kelly, Daft Punk, Bobby Brown. To many to mention! :wink:

    P'S I CHANGED IT lol :wink:

    MUSIC

    in Off Topic Discussions

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    *Kool & The Gang mate! (I had to point that out, was annoying me haha) - Some brilliant artists there. I like the dance floor artists you like aswell, add on Todd Terry, R Kelly, Daft Punk, Bobby Brown. To many to mention! :wink:

    Yeah i noticed i'd written c rather than k for kool and and gang lol I wrote this quite quick and didin't edit it afterwards lol....Yes tood terry somethings going on, bobby brown humpin around, Ignition R Kelly, Sonique, Ultra Nate, N Trance (set you free) There was something quite amazing about the early to mid 90's dance anthems. they still get a floor pumping today....Rosie Gaines, Gala, Olive, Baby D, D'Ream, could go on and on with this lol

    Becoming Gay

    in Gay/Bi/Lesbian

    Posted

    Hey gay guys just have a quick question:

    I'm straight, but i've thought about being gay or bi, so . . .

    Did you start off gay or straight? What made you gay?

    Thx

    In refference to your topic title Becoming Gay...there really isn't a becoming your either are or your not. You will know if you are gay or not, the question is are you ready to bite the bullet so to speak and come out? It can be difficult but with support and a lot of understanding you can come out and PLAY :-) Just be you mate because the longer you lie to yourself, deny who you really are the tougher it gets later on. I am 41 and I came out very late in life, 29 to be exact. I knew insde i was gay but still lead a straight life style, saw girls, mixed in straight circles (still do to a degree) i have a 23 yr old son who loved me for being me. So really I think you need to be honest with yourself look at yourself and say this is who I am. **** the world its your life, your the one who has to live it. So just enjoy the expereinces, have a few you'll soon know that you're not... Good luck yes also with regards to music you have a vast choice of what to enjoy, the freedom there to enjoy, madonna, gaga and perry without ridicule... I wish you well in your experiences may you find just as fantastic life as I have a 41 year old gay sagger (not a queen) with a proud son and a great network of friends... If you can be this happy the world is your oyser my friend

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    How To Come Out ?

    in Gay/Bi/Lesbian

    Posted

    Hey guys.

    I'm having this huge issues. I've been knowing for a long time that I'm gay.

    Lately I've kept thinking about it and what I should do.

    I want to come out to my parents and the rest of the world. Only my best friends know it so far.

    This ofcourse is easier then it's about to be done.

    My parents are very old fashioned and conservatorive. I'm also afraid for my brother. He and his girlfriend are expecting a baby and asked me to be the first uncle. Don't know the word in English. I really want to be happy coming out but I don't want to risk family relations going to waste.

    I'm really sad lately and very afraid. I don't know what to do..

    Sometimes I feel like life isn't supposed to be for me...

    Help me out please.

    Hey man,,, Do it in your own time, come out when you feel ready. I spent many years locked in a perosnal battle with myself,, wanting to fit in with my peer group but always wanting to be myself. I made a fair few mistakes on the way, one that produced a child (one thing i don't regret) because i wasn't honest with myself, fear of what other people may say or think of you inlcuding and most importanlty those closest around your FAMILY....Its very very difficult coming out and it takes huge amount of courage to be a man, suck it in, breath out and go for it. You come out because you want to...admit if first and formost to yourself, then to your parents when they are in a relaxed frame of mind. I take it that you feel incredilby concerned they will disown you ect? Don't fear this, your parents will be shocked for a while and probably not know what to say or do. This is their issue to deal with and not yours my friend, so don't feel like its your fault if they don't speak to you its theirs....You say you don't have many best friends you can confide in? In most cases this is good because you don't have the burden of them disowning you ect. You can find new friends , you come out of that old dusty wardrobe where most of us have hiddne in our lives, show some jazz hands and say **** you would, and you can then be whoever you were mean't to be. Good luck in coming out.. we have all been there those that have responded to your post :wink:

    how to get a girl.

    in Str8 As An Arrow ------>

    Posted

    Everything take time...important thing to remember if you like a girl DON'T HOUND HER, pay her compliments, take time to talk to her generally, listen to what she has to say to you even if its not a subject your interested in, Girls like to be paid attention too. Build up a friendship and then ask her out, take her some where away from your homes. you'll soon get to know eachother and if its mean't to be its meant to be. You can't expect a girl to like you straight off the bat, UNLESS she is the one giving you the eye and fluttering her eyelashes at you. Then the lights are all green for you to ask her out. If you want to do the asking yourself (as i said earlier) go over pay a compliment, strike up a conversation maybye start with music, and recroding artists ect. If you have some one in mind go i wish you luck mate...I had many times when i wish some one would give me advise when i was younger, i was shy, withdrawn and didn't always fit in with the in crowd at school. I made my own way in the end and have a 23 yr old son for the efforts (just the one never again lol)

    I Get An Erection Whenever I Sag Or See Sagging...

    in Str8 As An Arrow ------>

    Posted

    i get hard when i sag n me gf luvs it! she cant stop puttin her hands down there n then it normally ends up in her like!

    i luv saggin in town with a hard on - u get some awsume looks like!

    I sag mostly all the time with my ass out, but never sag a boner if i have one...I don't always get a hard on when sagging, its more a fashion statement form me, especially nowadays proving that because i'm of a certain age that i don't have to conform to the high waisted bottoms wearing brigade. If and when i do get a hard on which is usually wehn being eyed up by another sagger it stays inside just under my belt line but is clearly noticable lol

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