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My most favourite swim wear is a boardshort, freeballing and sagging. I love to sag them with some butt crack showing and pubes in front.

THAT is about the hottest thing to see, especially if they're the kind that get translucent when they're wet . . . Wish you were swimming at my beaches! Especially that low; I love seeing guys' pubes showing over the waistband like that.

I find it hot when guys do this. But personally i'm a speedos boy

Edit:typo! Me, too - unless I can wear something smaller, or (preferably) nothing. :-)

Sleep nude (makes less laundry, too, whether I freeballed during the day or not).

NOTHING is better than an orgasm, though some are better than others, like when you and your lover have played for hours and neither can hold back any longer, and then you go really slowly building up to those points of no return . . . oh, wow! I'm hard thinking of it that way.

You're right: take your life one glorious day at a time, enjoy every day (including all the dreams and fantasies!), and see where life leads you.

You've got plenty of time to get sexually active, so don't sweat being virgin. (And remember: a lot of the guys who are bragging about their sex lives are . . . well, it's call lying. Don't be fooled.)

It is NOT a hard world - unless you make it that way. Just keep on growing and learning and enjoying the life you have right now. (Yeah, and keep on dreaming about that blow job; if some hottie ever does give you one, you're sure to enjoy it - even if it's the only one you ever have in your life.)

Good question, guy!

You sound a lot like me when I was in my teens. I thought I was straight, dated a lot of girls, kissed and made out, but never actually had sex with any, even through college.

At the same time, I realized more and more that I liked looking at hot guys, also, and was imagining all kinds of sexual things with them. Dreams, with lust, and lots of thought fodder when I was masturbating.

In fact, by my late teens, I was fantasizing more about guys than girls when I was masturbating. I think that's a big indication of where you are: what you're thinking about when you're masturbating.

At the same time, it seems that a lot of straight guys get curious about other guys and want to experiment - and they do, maybe only once, maybe a few times. The straights get sexually satisfied (i.e.: have an orgasm) but don't get much more out of sex with another guy, and realize that sex with a girl is the only satisfying thing for them.

If you're really bi, you'll find that, like you say, you're attracted to both sexes, and develop a strong desire for sex with both. As you get a bit older, the desire for sex with guys - or with girls - may begin to fade. Or not. When I was mid-teen, I remember that I wanted both, even though I didn't have either until I was 21 and out of college. That's when I found out that sex with a girl didn't leave any satisfaction afterwards, but sex with a guy did - and I realized that I am gay.

Gee! Long diatribe in response to your question. Hope it helps, even a bit. If you want to ask questions, or comment, you can do it here or PM me (PM likely to get seen sooner). Whatever, I hope you find the answer(s) to your question, and are happy with whatever you find out -- and whatever you do.

Best wishes for your life!

Hey, it's been 15 months since you posted this.

Reply if you still are interested in abused (some severely!) jeans. ALL my jeans have been sagged in, probably all of them at least a few times commando, even.

Common features, about 30 x 30-32, busted out knees.

Let me know . . .

He came back.  Brought part of what they didn't sell from the shop.  When he got there 1/2 of my buddies were waiting by the front porch.  By the time the guy walked in the door he had on only his hat, shoes/socks and red ae boxers.

Hmm. Only hat, boxers and shoes? And brought something with him? This sounds totally hot -- do tell us the rest of this story!

Please. Pretty please. Pretty please with whipped cream on top . . .! !

My first post is my favorite.  It isn't quite an answer to the question, I was naked not underwear.

 

This is my second favorite.  I, my bf, and about 10 buddies were at bf's place for a sleepover.  We called for pizza.  By the time he got there, all 12 of us were stripped to briefs or boxers.  Some had on tanks or t-shirts, most of us were bare chested.  To pay him, we had him come in the house.  He seemed to get a little bothered by all of it.  It was cute.  By the time he left, he had been invited to come back after he was done at work.  1/2 hour or so until that.  He had one more delivery to make.

BIG QUESTION: DID he come back? If so, what happened . . . all night, even?

I used to, since I'm Catholic, and I was taught that jerking off is a sin. But after doing it more often, I don't anymore. A man's gotta do what a man's gotta do.

When I first started masturbating, I was naive and didn't comprehend what was happening. All I knew was that it was new and thrilling and I enjoyed it more every time. But since I didn't know, I felt guilty - and scared that somebody, especially my parents, would find out. After several months, I just settled into enjoying it in secret, not feeling bad, just scared that somebody would find out how weird I had become . . . Ever since then, it's become an act of intense pleasure with no negative after-feelings.

It's worth switching, I used to wear boxers and bbs but once you try briefs you'll never go back. Try ck hip briefs or andrew Christians.

If you feel you can afford these, good counsel. You might want to try one pair for feel, or get a 4-pack, or more, of FTL's or Hanes for the same price. Maybe go for both, see which you like best. The CK hip briefs feel totally . . . well, erotic.

Good luck!

This is awfully well written wisdom. Nothing to add, except read, heed, do it, and rejoice in the results. Kudos to Christianess!!

Hey! I'm not an expert or anything, but I like to keep myself thin and maybe I can give you some useful advice (hopefully). 

 

1) Do not go on a diet, but, rather, adopt a new lifestyle. Losing weigh and not gaining it back may require a long process and it is better if we do it in a gradual and pleasurable way.

2) Muscle is heavier than fat. Then, it is possible to gain weigh while doing sport, because one gains muscle and burns fat.

3) Extenuating exercices like running may boost your metabolism; but, by doing so, you risk being hungrier and eating more even withour realising.

4) Excercise burns calories, but nothing burns more calories that basal metabolism (aprox. 1500 calories without doing anything); so if you see that excercising heavily is making you eat more, walk instead. Walking, besides -for reasons that I have now forgotten- burns more fat than running.

5) Try and eat foods that are low in caloric density (that have few calories and are large; like some fruits and most vegetables). You will be eating less calories without feelings of deprivation.

6) It is harder to lose weigh if you are coupling carbs and far: it is better if you eat a rather low carb diet or a rather low fat diet. You decide.

7) I know many dieticians do not recommend skipping meals, but having a light breakfast OR dinner (one or the other, depending on your needs) may help.

8) Sometimes, we forget some things like alcohol have calories (and alcohol has plenty)

9) Eat things you enjoy. Do sports/activities you find pleasurable.

10) Relax: this is more about overall diet, fitness and lifestyle than a rigid routine. It's ok if you eat pizza or ince cream from time to time. It may even be positive to keep at bay the cravings.

 

Sorry if I wrote this poorly. I'm tired and English is not my mother tongue. Good luck! :B

men's small, or boy's medium or large.

I like it fairly snug, even boxers.

I'm like most of you guys: I almost NEVER throw out old underwear; I, too, have a box of too-beat-up-to-wear undies - mostly briefs and boxer briefs because they fit the tightest (I buy boy's sizes) and wear out fastest. Going to do an album set sagging in well-worn undies - that look like it. Don't know if it will interest anybody; won't even post it if it doesn't interest me.

Tight, or at least moderately snug, gets it for me. If it's the right guy, baggy can look good. I agree with the guys who like to see the outlines under snug or tight boxers and boxer briefs.

Briefs do seem to be coming back; I have some and wear them sometimes. Have to be careful where I'm wearing them if I sag so low that skin shows under them, though.

Great collection of thoughts on this thread! I hope more guys will participate.

i sag that low in public

I'd LOVE to see you like that!

Daring, yes; too low? NOT. That's hot; he's gutsy. I admire - and enjoy - a sag that low and a guy who does it in public like that.

Shirtless sagging is the sexiest. He was low enough almost to be exciting; was he grabbing at his belt to keep the jeans from sliding even further down?

You obviously didn't see it here, but if he'd been hard . . . and showing . . . IF!

But I don't wear anything under them . . .

Another advantage, since they feel so great anyhow: nobody except yo knows when you've j.o.'d in them - even the second time. HOT!

Wow. I never thought topping could be so good!

I went for it slowly, kinda teasing his tight little butt for a while before slowly pushing in. The tightness felt great on my **** and I could barely contain myself! As he got used to me brin in there and I realised I had some more work to do it all for better. He was really tight but I loosened him quite well.

I did it how I like it, slow and building to a full on hard romp. And he loved it!

I will be experiencing him again!

Sounds exactly like my first time. He was experienced and coached me in (pun) a lot of ways. Afterwards, we both wanted to do it again -- and did. Often.

I like to get to know the person as a friend first. Maybe the sparks are there, maybe not. If things look good and the attraction is mutual, then go for it! I'd tend to hold off until at least the second date; more likely the third for sex.

My feelings exactly. The mutual attraction has to be more than sexual, more than physical, for me. When we really are into each other mentally and emotionally, then it's time to be physically, too.

Agreed with LeeCostello: hand down the sweats is hot; he's only fair.

Wish his friend was sagging a bit lower . . .

How well I understand! I find the same problem here in the United States. It's worse for me because I like to shop in thrift stores, some of them do not have fitting rooms. Fortunately, I've only been disappointed a few times Best disappointment: a pair of cargo shorts that's looser than I expected for size 30 (I'm slender), so I HAVE to wear a belt. I usually don't wear a belt with jeans, cargos, and similar pants; I love the feeling of beltless sag -- and when unbelted jeans tend to slide lower . . .

there are plenty of sites for speedos, even sagging ones; keep this for sagging in jeans, sweats, bb shorts, even board shorts

There's something really appealing about a sag so low it shows pubes, especially if they're trimmed. But, also, a sag so low that it shows the guys is shaved all the way down is really hot; I like seeing those.

I've shaved my balls often, then shaped pubes to leave about 2/3 and trimmed those. Sometimes there's a bit of itch, but it's not a major problem (and it feels SOO good when I rub it!).

Recently, I shaved everything, and I'm really enjoying the way it looks. I wasn't sure, but dared myself and did it, and like it. I don't think it looks pre-pubescent, just virile. Of course, I like seeing it on other guys, like a the gym or a nude beach, or I wouldn't have tried it on myself.