DlMiki

Hey y'all, I am starting to see your point, as fetishes make things very difficult and weird in terms of sexuality. I think a major thing isn't that an asexual person can't get off or can't have sex, but it is more they aren't sex-focused. The goal when being with another person is never to screw them. Physically an asexual person can (potentially) have sex. there is nothing stopping them (aside from potential medical reason). it is more a mentality that it isn't the goal or necessary. On the Asexuality.org under Arousal, I think this line explains it the best "Because we don’t have

It varies per person honestly. I was just explaining my situation but as I said, asexuality is actually a pretty broad term that encompasses a lot of things. Some resources I like to use are: https://asexuality.org/?q=overview.html - Gives a basic overview of asexuality and some examples. it's my typical go-to guide for people to start learning. https://www.webmd.com/sex/what-is-asexual - This is useful also for reviewing it in a different manner and also gives reasoning as to why an asexual person may want to have sex For me personally, I haven't had sex and I am not inter

well like I said, the difference is between mental attraction and hormones. I can get horny but watching po*n doesn't turn me on like it would other people. I have no sexual attraction or lust in that sense. Fetishes are different in that I'm not sexually attracted to people but I have a way to activate my libido. Asexuality is not the same as being a virgin or being sex-repulsed. They often intermingle but they are different and people may not fall into one bucket or the other (such as there may be straight/gay/bi/etc. people who just don't like sex/have issues getting it up/have low libido).

Hey! This is actually a topic I can contribute to. So I consider myself asexual and I want to throw out some definitions before I get to the basis of things. Asexual = Lacking sexual attraction to people Libido = Act of masturbating/sex I am asexual. When I see a guy/girl I don't think "man i'd like to F**** them" or similar thought. I am not sexually attracted to them. I can see beauty (aesthetic attraction), want to date (romantic attraction), want to hug/kiss/ touch (sensual - not sexual) etc. Libido is a very different concept. Libido is the actual act of sexual stimulu