TMS

Thanks for the advice But right now, I am sexually satisfied. So, I do not think to be in the wrong circles Just wanna be satisfied. Therefore, no edging or blowjobs are required. Even having my last sexual contact to another person is about 2 years ago.

Foes

14 hours ago, Lee249 said:

Honey, there is always movement down below @jace would agree 😁

@maxfli I like to shoot the hoops.

Tennis or table tennis?

I wish US Open coverage was readily available to the British public x 

It really seems fascinating to do these things in cinema... but no. Just sitting next to each other, gently touching each other, that's fine.

2 hours ago, Andrew_Smiley94 said:

Tennis.

Ping Pong or Mini golf?

Mini Golf!

Listen to music in public: Using headphones or let everyone enjoy your songs as well?

14 hours ago, Lee249 said:

To give head, you gotta get on your knees lol. To give good head, you have to swallow. Take it all 😜

Thanks for clearing that up

Really interesting to find out, as receiving blowjobs is kinda unsettling for me. Even in case I am at full erection before my duck getting blown, as soon as it happens, the erection fades away. So, never had a satisfying bl****b in my life.

Because of that, ditching him for a good cocksucker seems stupid for me. So, any other qualities that should make me ditch him? 😁

Three, the number of my ex girlfriends.

4 hours ago, Denimsag said:

well the ship really but of those the car.

Cluedo or Trivial Pursuit?

Yeayyy, another ship lover 😆😆😆

Trivial Pursuit it is.

By the way: Cluedo is the name here in Germany. I thought this game to be called Clue in English speaking countries.

Card games or board games?

Monopoly!

About Monopoly: Dark-Blue Properties or Train Stations?

Ex-Boyfriend

Bowling.

At least you do get a bit of movement here.

Your bowling skills: 100 points, more or less?

2 hours ago, Lee249 said:

Ditch him you need someone like me as i give great head 😁

To give  head means giving blowjobs, doesn't it? 

A song I discovered some days ago, now listening to it on repeat. Really cool for calming down, but also reassuring:

On 8/28/2023 at 4:01 PM, Lee249 said:

A saying sprung to mind "if it's not broken, don't fix it" people can't change unless they've agreed to make the effort. On the other hand, people are happy as they are. 

Sometimes, it's best accepting their flaws. If you can move past it then great, if not then move on. That's a reasonable conclusion 👍

Dating is stressful @SaggerMatt this is why i'm out of that game. Relationships are hard work mate. 

Great saying! Having another one for that occasion, being a bit more general: You cannot force the world onto a path it hasn't choosen for itself.

Although world might be op in that regard, it also works for single persons.

And, in his case: No, he is not happy as things are right now. I am a huge boost in his life, some other aspects are really S***ty, also in his oppinion.

I will continue to be supportive, him being my partner would be.... just wonderful. But not happening in the moment.

About dating and relationships: Do also agree. Both of these thibgs are hard work. So, the goal is to find someone worth that effort. Most people are not, in my oppinion.

Tuba.

Triangle or Hexagon?

Management

Just boxers and socks, both from OTA, but not matching ones.

The feel of swimming in Jeans kinda feels unappealing to me, so Trackies it is.

Dominant or Submissive?

Performance

32 minutes ago, SaggerMatt said:

I think you just don't mix the two.  I think you're friends if you hook up and appreciate him.  If you want to take it to the next level, that's your business, but I'd cheer it.

This is kinda the point right now.

Some days ago, I thought him to be the perfect match. But, as we are now... I lost the rose-colored glasses a few days ago, disovering some aspects of him, I really dislike. We have talked this through and... he actually wishes to work on these things.

So, yeah, getting kinda interesting for me. Getting new insights of him, realizing, he might not be the right one. On the other hand, the feelings I am experiencing are real. Same time being a good friend, openly talking about my feelings while he is dating other guys. This might get really frustrating, but I do value this friendship quite a lot.

2 minutes ago, Lee249 said:

Some very good points there. Do we really know what we want out of this world? That's the biggie.

I found it particularly interesting when you mentioned desires & expectations. I suppose alot of people are forced into that trap. The one where we are compelled to appease others by that whole emotional blackmail guilt complex.

At the end of the day, we are all individuals in charge of our own destinies. 

 

 

 

 

The last sentence in particular is something I do agree upon. We are responsible for our own destinies and our own actions. There is no: I have to do this and that, for me, it is just: I want to do this and that. 

Being forced to do something is kinda easy. Having the choice is hard. 

I kinda started to watch out for myself and yeah, really some people seem to dislike this.

Sea Level

I do agree, lovers and friends are two different concepts, even in case they are my type. A friend of mine is really attractive, but his personality... no way. 

The person in question is different in that regard. He feels really close to me like I do feel really close to him. We do consider ourselves to be best friends. We are talking about everything on our minds, really being helpful to the other. For me, for a long time, this was enough to actually love him. This feeling is one-sided. He says, he is not interested in a relationship between me and him. We are not compatible in his regard.

There was a question about goosebumps: Kinda, I guess. There is a photo of him next to my bed, just looking at that photo really gives me a warm feeling, making it easier for me to sleep.

Soo, there may be a line between lover and friend. In the moment, I do not know where to put him to.

I completely agree upon the journey part. Getting what you actually want is probably giving you a lot more self-confidence, in case you actually know, what you want. And in case you have reached your goal, you might still be unhappy. Indicating what you thought to be your desires were... maybe just expectations of others.

Cut

Flesh light 😏😏

8 hours ago, Lee249 said:

If he's your friend then surely you wouldn't see him sexually? Do you have feelings? Interesting. Thanks 

Interesting question. So, you say, there is no chance to be sexually attracted to a friend without having deeper feelings?

Buuuut, the question at hand: Yes, I do have feelings for him.