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Cum on Treborneans what is it??

Lee, I did the "are you bisexual" quiz on bisexual.com recently: question 1: are you attracted to people of more than one gender? Question 2: there is no question 2 Answers: if you replied yes to question 1, then yes you are infact bisexual. Simple see!

This pros and cons thing is really interesting. I could write an essay on it. So I think I will. I realise that Fabik's original list isn't meant to be take seriously but the line that really jumps out at me is the "don't you dare say: just wait and eventually you'll Figure out the right choice." Previously I have tried to decide which way to go and attempted to work out wether I preferred boys or girls but have recently come to the conclusion that there's little point in trying to "sort out my feelings" as I am, in fact, strongly attracted to both and it isn't going to change. Â I recently di

Rupert was in a play for TV in the UK a couple of years back. I seem to remember he played a young virgin character who got laid by some older girl. There were few scenes where he had his shirt off. And again, I wouldn't say he's good looking, but there's certainly something about him. Don't think I'd be saying no to him if I was given the chance!

No don't think Daniel Radcliffe is hot at all, but bizarrely I do find Rupert Grint (Ron Weasley) strangely attractive, although no one could describe him as good looking. I think it's probably his red hair. I've always had a soft spot for redheads.

When I was 19 or 20 I was mistaken for a rent boy as I walked past a city centre amusement arcade. This guy of about 30 came up to me and started telling me that he thought I was good looking and so on. At the time I was genuinely confused and just walked away only to find out about 2 weeks later that the arcade was a hot bed of rent boy activity! I've kinda had a hankering to find out what would have happened if I'd gone with the guy... In my fantasty he takes me back to his place and I sit him down and then strip very slowly while he watches. I tease him for about an hour with out letting

Yeah that was really great! Thanks for that flamey. Just gotta wait for this boner to go away now!

Ross of the 'Elliot' stories comes out to his parents in the new episode. He finds it a bit traumatic. How was it when you told yours? Have you told your parents? How did they take it?

Basque!

Jesus!

Nope, nor me neither!

You know funny. I was watching Chris the gay character in Neighbours last night and the thought crossed my mind that it must be much less hassle to just be gay. Â Hmmm.Â

As it happens I didn't tell her about it because we were busy getting to Departures, Duty Free etc and things just moved on. I did consider telling her and It's one of those things that she would "roll her eyes about" as I put it in my interview. Luckily we both usually fancy the same guys!

I totally had a moment just like the above, in a most unlikely situation just yesterday, so I thought I'd share it with you: Coming home from holiday my girlfriend and I were having our passports examined by an Immigration Officer. As he was checking her passport I noticed he  did the 'checking out' look on a cute guy who walked past. As the Immigration Officer was actually quite cute himself I automatically (and this is virtually automatic for me now) checked out the same guy making sure the Immigration Officer was looking at me while I did it.  I then turned to look at the Officer and gave

Dream... (of Lee, running... )

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Perhaps I'm being too sensitive and whining too much about this. I just wondered if anyone had any suggestions. It can be quite funny sometimes. Good example was when I told colleagues that the GF and I had been to see 'Single Man'. (You know it? Tom Ford film with Colin Firth and astonishingly hot Nicholas Holt). Anyway, workmates start saying "Oh who been to see a chick-flick" etc. When I replied "Nah, not a chick-flick. It's a gay-flick." there was total stunned silence. Quite funny really. Thanks for the advice lads. I just need to care less!

I'm wishing you luck Lee!

Made a bit of a **** of myself by not reading the bit about your Cheeky Chappie being homophobic. That makes a difference of course! In that case, and as long as you're sure that is the case - it's not just part of his Jack the Lad persona for the rest of the straight lads - there is nothing much to be done. It hurts, it sucks but that's life and it happens to us all - gay,bi or straight.

HI Lee, I've been there and done that. I had a holiday job when I was 19-20. I worked closely with a guy there who was driving me crazy. He was straight, a couple of years older than me and engaged! He was fairly keen to be friends as we got along really well. Although he was straight he was up for a bit of "gay-play" which because I wasn't out in that job (it was factory work) I went along with and enjoyed it for what it was worth. We used to get changed every morning and evening and I'd get to check out his worked out bod twice a day, everyday. (It really did drive me crazy to the poin

Hi All, Avido here. As a bisexual I'm feelin a little tired of having to repeatedly come out. I know that sounds kinda wierd but I'm wondering if other bisexuals here have been able to find a solution to this. I imagine if your gay and especially if you have a BF people must fairly quickly realise what is going on and accept it (or not). But being bi seems to confuse the hell out of straights. Especially as I have a longterm GF. I don't want to have to constantly say to new people I meet "Hi, I'm bisexual!" as that would be so naff as it doesn't come up in conversation usually. But if I